I think any reason is acceptable to not have another bub, as long as it is YOUR reason
Yeah but at the moment I'm flip flopping all over the damn place between have one, don't have one - its constantly on my freakin mind and driving me nutty!!!!! I am like this stupid fish thats been yanked out of the water and just flopping all over the deck - this way, no this way, no the other way - ARGHHHHHH.

Marcellus - hmm. cloning. That IS an idea...

Jahzara - thanks I know you understand what I'm going through xxxxxx (btw, girls night with Sterla soon ok?)

MD - thats what DH said too... and that basically its up to me cos I gotta go through it!