Deltadawn, Meh, dont let it get to you.
I read SOS, and I have used parts of it.
I did hold my baby out for the next feed because it meant 100mls every 2 hrs 24/7 OR 200mls every 4.
I got sick of preparing 12 bottles a day, not to mention the waste when I wasnt sure what he wanted and fed him JIC.
I did let my bubs CIO for the first time, after that, he got better with each sleep and by day 2 of this regime,was settling straight away.
My bubs doesnt feed to sleep, he doesnt need to. He will go to sleep anywhere and for anyone.
I also CHOSE to formula feed my bubs, I tried BF for about a week and I couldnt stand it.
I dont feel guilty for any of my parenting choices, thats why I dont feel the need to justify them.
Hell, there are 100's of threads on this site about "gentle parents" who havent had a full nights sleep in years.
You and I arent one of them, and that is good enough for me