I tend to agree with Caro and Liz, Ryn. I am so sorry that you are stressed out about this, because you should be really enjoying this time. Your decisions and feelings should be respected. And I also had my baby blues around the 3rd day.

I just think I would be absolutely devastated if Rayanne had a baby and didn't want me there. I had no family at all when I gave birth to her and I really felt sad that only DH's family were involved.