thread: Aaaagh! Need help re: post-birth visitors

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Sep 2006
    Melbourne
    260

    Hi Ryn,

    It is not good that you are feeling so stressed over it all. I hope your mum can see that she is making you feel anxious and stressed and back off a little bit. She should just keep her plans to herself, you don't need to know now. As for looking perfect, if you can't have a few down days after giving birth, then when can you!!!!!!!

    Try and focus on the fact that very soon you will have a beautiful baby, and that is all that is important right now - the 3 of you.

    take care
    xxxxxxxx

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Life Member

    Jan 2005
    in the valley of cuddles with mountains of smiles
    2,369

    how awful they are intent on going against your wishes on this very precious moment in your life and making you miserable .The only way is not to tell them when you go into labour or when Liebling is born ... ie tell them 3 days after and only tell people you want to know

    I hope you have a stressfree birth and a beautiful baby honeymoon with only the ones you want there to cherish you as you are.