Hi Ryn,

It is not good that you are feeling so stressed over it all. I hope your mum can see that she is making you feel anxious and stressed and back off a little bit. She should just keep her plans to herself, you don't need to know now. As for looking perfect, if you can't have a few down days after giving birth, then when can you!!!!!!!

Try and focus on the fact that very soon you will have a beautiful baby, and that is all that is important right now - the 3 of you.

take care
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