WOW - what a thread. My initial reaction is that he should cut the cord because its one thing they can do and they can still do it without holding the baby - the baby can be put on you straight away. BUT.....he sounds like he isn't a very supportive husband at all so I really don't know. I don;t think it should be an argument though - if you fight over this what else do you fight over? it's a tough one. Some of the other girls have great suggestions - I hope it works out for you.