hmm.. i didn't read that as him holding the baby before mum. Just that he wants to be the first to see & hold the baby out of everyone else, which again, I think is fair enough.

But he could still have first cuddles even if there is a support person.. it's only right that the daddy is next in line after mummy!

Yeah sorry everyone, thats what I meant, bubs gets put straight on my chest after being born. With DD DH got to deliver her (midwife told him when to catch DD & he's the one who bought her into the world so to speak, I'm pretty sure he'll do that again which I dont mind) He just doesnt want anyone else there to "see" the baby as soon as he's born I suppose thats the best way to describe.

Sorry I was upset last night so didnt word it very well at all. I'm very tired today so still not thinking very straight LOL

Thanks for all your responses, I'd still like to cut the cord this time but I may meet him half way & cut together? MAYBE lol.