Hi Sue

The whole experience is so surreal as it is something we have all probably mentally prepared ourselves for a pregnancy to never happen that when it does we feel detached from the whole experience.

I know that I always felt that I was looking in from the outside and never really resonated that it was actually ME having a baby.

Even now DD is 12 weeks old and I still have the feeling that I am only looking after her and that "they" will come and get her soon... Don't get me wrong I love my little one to bits and wouldn't give her up for the world, but I still can't quite believe that I am actually her mummy.