FG: I'm so happy that you are going to have a chat to someone, I think it is a good idea to sometimes let everything out to someone who is not so close to the situation (ie: DH) so they can be more objective.

Re the feeding, yep I make up all her bottles before hand. I always make sure that I have almost a day's worth in the fridge every morning as Tara is not very patient waiting for her food. Generally DH will do the last night feed for me and then I do the middle of the night and depending on what time she wakes in the morning determines who will feed her, if it is about 7am DH feeds her any earlier or later then I do the feed so DH can get sleep or get ready for work. Although this week he has been no help to me as he has pulled some muscles in his back and shoulder and is in a lot of pain (although not as much as the couple of days after my c/s, but you can't tell him that) so he can't even pick Tara up at the moment. All he is able to do for me is to watch her in the morning while I have a shower and that's it. Hopefully it will start to get better soon as we have to do a big grocery shop on the weekend and he will need to do all the lifting etc. Anyway at least I know that Tara being on the bottle is working, she was weighed yesterday and has put on 300g in 9 days, so she now weighs 3.5kg .