ooh Sazz, sounds like you're nesting with all that cooking LOL at your DH being pleased with the DTD theory!
As for telling people about our planned c/s, I'm not sure? We told my mum the other day, but MIL gives me the impression that she thinks I won't be having one, so if I can get away with not having to tell her that will be great LOL! DH is aware that I am banning all family on the first day, which won't sit well with MIL either. DH thinks she will still show up, but we agreed that if she does she will be allowed to visit for a quick cuddle then told on her way out to not bother to see us again. We are having some issues with her ATM.
Will have to drop back into the c/s thread and get as much info as possible. Next visit to OB, I will ask him how he feels about birth plans for c/s and if he has anything he will or won't do. Will have to go buy some books too, knowledge is power so they say!

the cold sore cream I got is just an anti-septic called medi-creme. Whenever I have a cold sore it is just on my lip, but this time it's on my lip and goes about a centimetre above my lip too! just yucky!

Nic