Possums - I just got back from my long weekend away. My heart is breaking. This is just so unfair. I really wish that I knew the right things to say, but I don't. So what I will say is that I am thinking of you, your DH and your beautiful little angel. I am sending you all my love and praying for you to get through this terrible time.

I too have a DH who likes to "fix" all my problems. They want to take your pain away from you, when what you really need is to feel that pain, as horrible as it is, in the safety of their arms.

You have every right to feel resentment about how difficult this journey is for you and how easy it is for other people. I think we have all felt that.

I am here should you need to talk. Take the time that you need to grieve and to heal. We are all here for you.

Janie xxx