Milly you beautiful girl, congrats on being 19 weeks. I dont think you should train yourself to say anything. What you say is perfect. The world needs to be educated on the truth behind miscarriage, so many believe that it shouldnt be that sad, or you didnt even know your angels so just have another one. I think the authenticity of your response is beautiful and is not morbd, its just real.
Love to you darlin girl, hope I can really join this thread soon .... iykwim ...
xxxxxx