Milly, my love, other milly is right. Don't train yourself to say anything. Everything you feel, say and do is OK

Last night we told the ILs over the phone, and they were talking about how amazing and beautiful the news was. And yeah, it is. But I sat there feeling really empty while they gushed. I don't know what it is - if it's fear, or dormant grief, or just massive apprehension.
The other thing that gets me is that they thought we wouldn't tell them until 12 weeks. This p!sses me off royally - last time we told them at 6 wks - why would we tell them then if we didn't feel like we'd get their support? Why should our history change anything?
So, yeah, milly, I am all about being completely honest in everything you say.

Says the girl who has no plans to tell her father of this pregnancy. But that's a whole other story.