I can't tell you how relieved I am to have come across this thread and know that it's not just me. Since I got pregnant I have next to no interest in sex (except for the occasional saucy dream, but I can't convert that to my waking hours ).

I've had sciatica from very early on, which has been a real physical deterrent, but even when it isn't acting up I have very little desire. My poor DH is so understanding, but I can't help but feel guilty... I try and make the effort once a week or so and if I really can't I will try and help in out with my hand. But, when we do DTD I find that it is quite uncomfortable initially and just doesn't feel the way it used to. Don't get me wrong I still end up coming and stuff, but it is just not the same... I really hope this changes after the baby comes