My husband was quite set on a girl, and now we know he's a boy I think he feels disappointed, although he's trying not to. I think he feels he will have to behave differently with the baby, and not be as snuggly/sooky as he wanted to be and thought he would be with a girl. I'm not sure what I can do to help him come to terms with it and to know that baby boys need snuggling just as much as girls.