to you puppies. My mum wasn't involved at all. I didn't really expect it though, so it wasn't a shock, although it still niggled at me sometimes. There was ONCE she said oh I guess I should take you shopping and get a car seat or something then huh. I told her not to bother...lol. She's more involved when she sees Oskar now though, but that still holds a sore point for me cos she hardly did anything with Joshua at the same age - go figure!!

Anyway, I don't know what to say that may help. Could you possibly tell her a little how you are feeling? Another for you, hope you feel better.