I've given up - I just lie now!!!

We started telling ppl when they asked if we knew "yes, but we're keeping it a secret" - but then I discovered that some people don't take the hint and their next questions is "so what is it"? What part of secret do they not get? Grrr! Although I have to admit that I don't think they're trying to be rude - they're just excited. But it gets really awkward then when I dig my heels in and won't tell them. So I've decided it's much better just to tell people "it's a surprise". Technically I'm not lying, because it IS a surprise - just not to us!

And if ppl ask about names, I just laugh and say we've got some in mind, but we'll probably change our minds later (although not likely as we both really like what we've chosen).