We know what we are having and knew we would be hopeless on keeping it a secret so decided not to bother trying. When we were first pregnant I was uber paranoid about telling people before 12 weeks, but husband was so excited he couldn't help himself. During the 11th week I got a 'congratulations' email from a mutual friend. When I asked him how he knew, he said he had overheard husband in the (only) coffee place at work talking about it! Hopeless! Therefore I knew that once we found out gender keeping it a secret would not be an option.

However we are definitely keeping the name secret. That was our deal to ourselves and both are still going strong.