Brand new single parent

[Melly01]

Baby Socks, I know Burnside has a "new steps" home visiting service where a social worker/counsellour type person will come to your house and talk to you for an hour or so a week. It was fantastic for me, the lady who visited me was amazing. She took Logan & I out for lunch a couple of times and even covered part of my dentist bill once, all paid for by burnside. Without that service I never would have done a bridging course to get in to uni, and they even provided a volunteer who would drive me & logan to uni once a week so she could look after him while I studied. They supported me when i finally managed to break up with Logans father for good & I am still in contact with them now even though I am not a client of Burnside anymore. I don't know where abouts in Australia you are but maybe another service like that is available near you.

Or you could call the Domestic Violence Helpline if you feel you need to desperately talk to someone, they should also be able to get you in touch with other services in your area.

I am glad your parents are helping you a lot.

Just remember whatever you decide to do, you are so strong already for all the things you have done for youself & your daughter. I really admire your strength.

[Neenee Jellybeanie]

Thanks, ladies.
I called the womens DV helpline a few times when I was still with my ex, but all they did was made me feel guilty and stupid for being with him, and talk a whole lot without actually letting me talk. So I've kind of given up on them to be honest.

I do want to do counseling at some point, I will eventually. Just right now I feel like i've already got a lot going on (though of course counseling may help that feeling but i don't know lol).

Thanks <3

[Lilly-Pilly]

Baby socks how are you going?? Are you feeling better about things yet?
How is it all going with the Ex?
Hope you're taking care of yourself