Bec - i can not beat what the other ladies here have already said - they're wonderful words!

All i have to add is: when your dh comes back, go on a nice little trip somewhere away from the rest of the family!

preferably somewhere cold with a nice little wood fire to cosy up too...

& dont forget to bring along some prg vitamins like blackmores conceive well, good food & wine... & just enjoy each other!