Belinda - I'm sorry that things are so raw for you. It will slowly get better, and yes, we all feel the same way.
We were so manic to concieve after our m/c it was such a hard time. Sometimes I think its almost better if you have to settle down again before getting going cause its just so much pressure.
Anyway, you will get there again, no matter how long it takes, itwill be wonderful.
Just popping in cause I got an SMS from Tanya this morning and she wanted me to let you all know.
AF due today and temp rise! So she is off to buy an HPT and will hopefully come and visit from the library later today.... if its good news.
I have everything crossed for her
oh, Belinda, Iam realy really sorry that you are feeling so low at the moment. If you need to cry though you need to let the tears come- as others have mentioned this is your way of dealing with your loss. Has af returned since your m/c (I'm assuming not since it was only 3 wks ago)? Maybe once it does you will feel more hopeful. Unfortunately we all know what you are going through & after a long time TTC it can be an almighty blow to lose a bubba. I still have tears & low days about my m/c in August but then I think I need to be positive so my body is able to nuture another little bubba. LisaL is a big believer in positive thoughts & energy & look where that has got her- UTD!
Allow yourself to grieve & when you are feeling stronger you will be more hopeful & will get that BFP you so deserve. Ina few years you will look back on this time & realise how much stronger it has made you!
Mako, same to you - be strong over the next few weeks facing you DH friend & little one -maybe being around a bubba willl rub off some good vibes to you- here's hoping.
Chin up everyone & I hope we are hearing more good news from Tanya this afternoon - GO TEAM BLUE!!
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