I am so sorry to hear about your loss; and I totally understand how you feel with your due date coming up. Mine will be in January 09 and April 09, and I dread those dates. Two of my best friends are pregnant right now (we all became pregnant more or less around the same date), and seeing them now is very painful. But don't give up hope, you're still very very young (hey, you could be my daughter:-), so try to find a good doctor who is proactive and does all the tests, both with you and your partner. I am seeing a m/c specialist now, and it feels great to be in good hands - he tests everything so that he can rule things out, one after the other. I think it is very important to find a compassionate and well organized doctor who understands you and who doesn't think you're hysterical because you ask for tests.
I have also posted a message on TCM (Trad Chinese Medicine) a few days ago - maybe that's something you want to look into, once you have ruled out everything else? (when I started seeing my TCM doctor, she first asked for the "Western" tests to be performed - FSH, estradiol, anti mullerian hormone to check my hormone status). TCM and Western medicine can very well work together.
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