babyjubz....... I m sooooooo sorry for your loss. I know there is nothing I can say that will make it any better. I will say, as the ladies in here have heard me say many times....... Be true to you right now. Allow your emotions, allow the anger, the frustration, allow the sorry, the pain.... all of it regardless of how much it hurts... allow it. DONT push it aside it will only last longer. Allow everything you feel... be true to you and do not try and act how you think people think you should.
As for starting again.... completely up to you. I know a lot of ladies found it easier to heal by trying straight way..... Medically they suggest minimum 1 cycle for 2 main reasons, firstly for the lining to heal and the second one false pregnancies. Many women who have TTC straight after a miscarriage still have some HCG in their systems. Which can give a false BFP. So they are thrilled, thinking they are pregnant and then they think they have miscarried again when either their period arrives or they get a negative result.
For me, the first 2 weeks there was no way I could think of trying again, by the third week I was desperate to try again........ Nearly 10 months later and I m still desperate to try again..... OHHH well.. at least Hubby cant say he doesnt get any hey
Last edited by Baby Angels; September 13th, 2008 at 02:40 PM.
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