Hi everyone,

Megs75 - I'm sorry for your loss. Yes, we've all been through it and I think that's what makes us so supportive to each other. Most of the people we come across in the real world don't know we've had a m/c and those that do have often not had one themselves so they just don't understand.

Kiwigirl - Sorry I can't help you with that bleed as I've never had anything like that before. I guess you will know if it was ovulation bleeding if you get your AF in two weeks (hopfully you won't get it at all of course).

Britkane - I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you find the support you need in this forum.

Claire - It's great that the m/s has kicked in with a vengance.

Sharon - As long as you leave your thermostat on about the same temp each night it shouldn't affect your temps. We keep ours on overnight as well and it doesn't seem to have affected anything. One thing I do know is that you shouldn't use electric blankets when you are temping as that does alter your temp.

Cherie - From experience I can tell you that a temp taken at a different time in the day is usually inaccurate. For example I took one in the early hours of Sunday morning (I was staying elsewhere so couldn't see a clock) and got 36.4 so thought I'd ovulated. When I took it at the usual time later on it was only 36 and I had not ovulated as I also got 36 the following morning. I'm hoping the comments about pregnancy will stop now, that the pregnant coworker has gone on her maternity leave. She was probably the worst about it, followed by my closest coworker (in proximity). I couldn't help it recently, I mentioned how as she was nearly 30 with no boyfriend on the horizon she'd better get her bum into gear or she'd still be trying to pop them out at my age. Mean I know, but I wanted her to see how uncomfortable it is to have people say stuff about a subject that you are very concerned about. I hope that O is on its way to you.

Bun - Stop stressing about a D&C. You are not going to need one. If you did you would probably be fine to fly in relation to bleeding but you could be an emotional wreck. Once again I say you will not need one. You need to try and get your paranoia under control or it's going to wreck your holiday and your entire pregnancy. Very few women have 3 miscarriages in a row. Your body was just preparing itself for this pregnancy and now it's well and truly ready - your horrendous morning sickness is constant proof of that. Lecture over now.

It's CD18 for me now & it appears that I O'd on CD16 as I've had two higher temps in a row (jump of .4). Basically I think that puts me out of the race this cycle. We BD'd pretty much every day up until Friday night & then not again until Monday night & that looks like the day I O'd. From what I've read you don't have much chance of catching the egg if you DTD on the same day. Maybe there were some really strong swimmers that lived for 3 days but I doubt it. Well at least I wont sit here imagining that I'm pregnant again this cycle as I know that it is very unlikely.