TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 08

[plc1805]

Sorry i haven't posted lately but will bbl for personals.

Just wanted to say to Pbstar - that, depite what u feel, u r not a failure and u r experiencing what many many women before u have for hundreds of years but have never wished to share with anyone else cos it's "taboo". Honey, not any consolation right now but maybe will be in time, this is nature's way. It can happen once, twice, 3 times and more and it randomly happens to anyone - not ur fault and nothing u did wrong. That's the logical side - the emotional side doesn't understand that hence u feel like a failure and that it will never happen for u. Sweety - it WILL happen for you - just believe it will. You have all of our shoulders to cry on however for as long as you need it

[pbstar]

ladies, thank you all for your replies to my post this morning. your kindness and support make such a difference. knowing i am not alone helps more than i can even say.

i do know i shouldn't blame myself, guess it is just natural to try to look for answers and reasons when there really aren't any. it is hard but once again i am slowly surrendering to knowing this is all out of my control.

once again, thank you all for your support.