I can so relate. Hubby now sits his laptop to the left hand side of him when he is sitting on the couch. Its not allowed on his lap. His Mobile phone is not allowed in the pocket of his pants. Smokes were cut out TOTALLY 6 months ago and Coffee has been reduced to about 1 or 2 cups. That still might sound like a lot to some people but trust me, we own our own business and are work a holics, we survived on coffee and smokes. 6 months ago we only ate one meal a day and the rest was coffee and cigs. OH BOY HAS THAT CHANGED.

As for the BD I decided last night that I would not discuss it. I thought about it a bit and I could be totaly wrong, its happened before, but what pressure. DH its time to perform now come here. Ohhh the thought of it stressed me out when I put myself in his shoes. So I have it figured. Lets go for once a week and then on the "special" week he might get an extra one or two or three.... who knows. lol

I started talking to him about days of the month etc last night and its as if the colour just drained out of his face.

I know that theory doesnt relate to our next IVF cycle but at this stage that wont be until about May or June and until then the attempts naturally will at least be enjoyable

He still swears that if the day ever comes where we decide that we are not going to continue TTC then he s going straight out and buying a packet of smokes.