TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ March 08 #2

[jen805]

Angel Babies--I think working on your relationship is a great way to take your mind off getting pg! I'm told that's when it happens--when you aren't even trying. Glad to see you're standing up for yourself!

Natty--So sorry for your BFN. There's no words I can say to take away you paid, but my heart truly feels your pain. Praying for a miracle for you next month! God bless....

Not really sure how my cycle works, so I'm not really sure when AF is supposed to show up. When we decided to TTC it took about 6 mo's from the time I stopped the pill to get pg. During that time I only marked the starting day of my period, not how long it lasted. I don't even know when I'm O'ing. Any way to figure all this out without actually purchasing an O'ing kit? I guess if AF shows up I'll at least be able to calculate how long my cycles are. I had never really worried about getting pregnant then, I figured it would happen when it was supposed to. Then it did, and it just never even occurred to me that I would m/c. Now I'm so confused with when I'm O'ing, and how long my cycles are, and whether or not I should even worry about it. I just feel really selfish b'cuz I want to be pg right now! I don't want to wait, and I wish that those of you who have to wait, didn't have to wait! Sorry, just feeling a little anxious and needing to vent. Thanks to you all for listening and understanding!

[smilanatu]

Technically I could test today, but I am too chicken! Tomorrow is AF day (provided everything is finally back to a sense of "normal) I have no AF symptoms...not 1 pimple and I ALWAYS get 1 or 2. I feel a teeny bit nauseaous BUT I am sure it's nerves!

[jen805]

smilanatu--Hoping and praying you get a BFP! Good luck!

[Natty]

Arrrghhh - I cant believe it - I POAS this morning and got a . So my head wasnt playing games. DH just said "oh well dont get excited because I dont want to see you upset like last time and I dont want to be upset either". Which I know he is right but he could at least have given me a hug. I know our m/c really affected him as well - he has been a total saint since, but.....

I just knew those vivid dreams werent normal for me. No other signs though but I guess I am only about 11DPO.

Angelbabies - you are so right about getting your relationship right and making sure you are treated the way you deserve to be. I waited two years to get our relationship right before we started TTC and I feel a lot more relaxed about everything and better about bringing a child into our family knowing that DH and I really do love each other. Our relationship was pretty bad at one point hence the two year wait!

Jodsan - did you test I am dying to know...

To all you lovely ladies - thank you so much for your support. I hope to see that you all have BFP very very soon.

Natty

[tina_k]

angelbabies: as always, thank you for your inspirational words
i think you have the right idea, getting your relationship as strong as it can be first. all the best...
also, did you mention that there was a 2WW area on BB?

smilinatu: good luck with testing...let us know how you go!

jen805: i know exactly what you mean when you say "i want to be pg right now"!!! - me too!!!!!

hi to everyone else...

as for me, i feel much more positive this month, so fingers crossed that we will get some +ve news, i think im up to CD20 of a 33 day cycle, so well and truly in the 2WW

[Trac73]

Hello Ladies

Wow i haven't been here for a week or so and look how much i have missed. I am still catching up on everyone so there will be no personals this post.

Welcome to all the newies i hope your stay here is short and supportive

Hello to everyone else...............How are we all doing? How are all our ladies going with all the BFP's?

What's been happening with me.............Well i have been a bit blaize about the TTC this month even though i had promised my self i was really going to focus on it as i really would like a BPF this month but as it has turned out my mind has been in other places. I don't even know if i O'd this month let alone BD around the right time. Well i am keeping my fingers crossed that this is a BFP month but if not it really is my own fault for not concentrating on TTCing.

Well sending lots of and positive vibes for more

[Jodsan]

Natty - Yey, yey, yey, yeeeey!!! Congratulations! Crossing my fingers it is a sticky one, sending you some

Angel - This TTC really does take its toll on everything around us, and definately on our relationships. Taking a break sounds like a really good idea, just to be two people in love again. Just enjoy your time together for now, you'll know when you're ready again. Good luck, will be thinking of you.

Definately AF for me, heavier than I've ever had before, absolutely no chance it is implantation. Only a 25 day cycle this time, really strange. I was feeling fairly confident that I'd conceived too, I'm wondering whether I may have and it didn't implant properly so I am having an early mc. Dont know? I have made an apointment to see my unreal doctor next Friday (she usually takes a month to get into so I'm lucky) to show her my chart and see what might be going on with my body. Thinking I probably need a break from TTC now too, too many disappointments and it just seems too hard on my poor body.

Good luck to all of you for your next cycle, hope you dont have much longer to wait!

[tempus moriendi]

Hi everyone, I'm still in TWWing mode...

Angel Babies: I'm sorry. Sending cyberhug. I think it's great you and your DH do communicate, even if it's rocky sometimes

berecca623: good luck!

danielsgirl1113: I would call the doc

Katiegirl: best of luck

Magda: sending encouragement vibes

tina_k: I'm in the TWW, but trying not to get too crazy!

fiona264: my side effect from clomid this month was insomnia...and yes, it's a prescription, because it's pretty powerful stuff...

jen805 and prayingandhoping: welcome to our site. I'm sorry you had to go through that, and I'll keep you in my prayers.

[Magda]

Hi Ladies,

Wow, it has taken me a while to read all of the posts. I have to make this quick now because I have to get some work done.

AngelBabies: I am sorry to hear that you will not be so involved with our group because your posts always make me happy. But I do understand that you have to focus your energy else where so that you can come back and be ready, hey I bet that while you are working on your relationship you will get an unexpected suprise. I really do hope that happens to you. Do let us know how you are doing .

Jodsan: I am so sorry that AF showed up I was so rooting for you. Keep your spirits up, It will happen very soon.

Tina K; GL Gl for you. I am keeping my fingers, legs and toes crosses for you hun.

Katiegirl: Congratulations on hearing the hb. I am so happy for you and I agree with everyone here you are going to have A DECEMBER!!!! or is it a November baby that is happy and healthy.

Berecca623: Congratulations to you!! I am so happy for you too. Another happy and healthy baby!!!!


Natty, Natty, Natty, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! (when is your period due?) another December baby. I know exactly how you feel because I POAS today twice 1st time it was an ept and at first it said BFN and I got alittle disappointed I thought It is just too soon still. Then I went to get my son's clothes out for him and came back to the bathroom and there was a very faint vertical line appearing. At first I thought it was the sunlight and I kept moving around. But there was a + sign. Then I went out and got the Clear Blue that has a window that will say pg or not pg. And POAS early evening and it said Pregnant. I can't believe it. I am in shock. I so hope this baby is ok. Oh and guess what too ladies I am going to be a Grandma. So I went from no baby to two babies, wow.

[Katiegirl]

Congrats to Natty and Magda - 2 BFPs in one day! How wonderful. Here is some stick vibes for you both

Good luck to everyone on the 2WW - I hope it is not too agonising and passes quickly.

I am starting to feel that maybe this baby has a chance - and yes I am due November.