TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ March 08 #2

[Jodsan]

Natty - Yey, yey, yey, yeeeey!!! Congratulations! Crossing my fingers it is a sticky one, sending you some

Angel - This TTC really does take its toll on everything around us, and definately on our relationships. Taking a break sounds like a really good idea, just to be two people in love again. Just enjoy your time together for now, you'll know when you're ready again. Good luck, will be thinking of you.

Definately AF for me, heavier than I've ever had before, absolutely no chance it is implantation. Only a 25 day cycle this time, really strange. I was feeling fairly confident that I'd conceived too, I'm wondering whether I may have and it didn't implant properly so I am having an early mc. Dont know? I have made an apointment to see my unreal doctor next Friday (she usually takes a month to get into so I'm lucky) to show her my chart and see what might be going on with my body. Thinking I probably need a break from TTC now too, too many disappointments and it just seems too hard on my poor body.

Good luck to all of you for your next cycle, hope you dont have much longer to wait!

[tempus moriendi]

Hi everyone, I'm still in TWWing mode...

Angel Babies: I'm sorry. Sending cyberhug. I think it's great you and your DH do communicate, even if it's rocky sometimes

berecca623: good luck!

danielsgirl1113: I would call the doc

Katiegirl: best of luck

Magda: sending encouragement vibes

tina_k: I'm in the TWW, but trying not to get too crazy!

fiona264: my side effect from clomid this month was insomnia...and yes, it's a prescription, because it's pretty powerful stuff...

jen805 and prayingandhoping: welcome to our site. I'm sorry you had to go through that, and I'll keep you in my prayers.

[Magda]

Hi Ladies,

Wow, it has taken me a while to read all of the posts. I have to make this quick now because I have to get some work done.

AngelBabies: I am sorry to hear that you will not be so involved with our group because your posts always make me happy. But I do understand that you have to focus your energy else where so that you can come back and be ready, hey I bet that while you are working on your relationship you will get an unexpected suprise. I really do hope that happens to you. Do let us know how you are doing .

Jodsan: I am so sorry that AF showed up I was so rooting for you. Keep your spirits up, It will happen very soon.

Tina K; GL Gl for you. I am keeping my fingers, legs and toes crosses for you hun.

Katiegirl: Congratulations on hearing the hb. I am so happy for you and I agree with everyone here you are going to have A DECEMBER!!!! or is it a November baby that is happy and healthy.

Berecca623: Congratulations to you!! I am so happy for you too. Another happy and healthy baby!!!!


Natty, Natty, Natty, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! (when is your period due?) another December baby. I know exactly how you feel because I POAS today twice 1st time it was an ept and at first it said BFN and I got alittle disappointed I thought It is just too soon still. Then I went to get my son's clothes out for him and came back to the bathroom and there was a very faint vertical line appearing. At first I thought it was the sunlight and I kept moving around. But there was a + sign. Then I went out and got the Clear Blue that has a window that will say pg or not pg. And POAS early evening and it said Pregnant. I can't believe it. I am in shock. I so hope this baby is ok. Oh and guess what too ladies I am going to be a Grandma. So I went from no baby to two babies, wow.

[Katiegirl]

Congrats to Natty and Magda - 2 BFPs in one day! How wonderful. Here is some stick vibes for you both

Good luck to everyone on the 2WW - I hope it is not too agonising and passes quickly.

I am starting to feel that maybe this baby has a chance - and yes I am due November.

[Natty]

Magda - congratulations!! Thats wonderful news! Wishing both of us Its both scarey and exciting isnt it?! My AF is/was due either Sunday or Monday. So by all accounts it will be due early December. A Christmas baby for us both!

Katiesgirl - thanks for your congrats. And lots of to you too. Does that make you about eight weeks?

Jodsan - I am so sorry hun. I was so hoping that you were going to get a BFP. You had all the good signs. It will happen soon for you, I can feel it.

Natty

[Jodsan]

Magda, congratulations x 2, wow, mummy and a (young) gradma!! My mum was 37 when my brother made her a grandma! Hope it all goes well, I'm sending you heaps of

Yey, 2 BFP's in one day, has cheered me up already!

Thanks Natty, I'll hav a good chat with my doc, I'm sure she'll sort me out. She didn't conceive her 1st until 39 and I haven't seen her for a while so she may even be going through the same problem trying to conceive a second.

[mollycat]

CONGRATULATIONS TO NATTY AND TO MAGDA Wishing for the best christmas present possible for your families.

OK everyone that's two down, how many more can we achieve in the next few weeks.

Angelbabies - When your ready, come back and join us, just don't forget to pop in occasionally and straighten us out. You've really got a positive outlook on life, and you're right TTC does take a strain on any relationship, although I believe it does make our relationships stronger, so hopefully it won't be long before you get a to add to your family.


It's been a while since i posted so i'll give you an update - firstly my car was supposed to be back from the smash repairers last week (unfortunately that was delayed) so, it looks as though i'll have it back tomorrow. I had it for 9 days, they've had it for 34 days, maybe i should get them to make the next repayment!!!sad huh.
i've just come back from my gyno - he still prefers if we go through IVF - although we don't feel that is for us as we already have two sons and if can't have another baby (the other way), we'll just resign ourselves to that's it. So, i've told him no IVF, he sent me for a million blood tests (about nine vials later), a lot of them related to the m/c. he commented that he wished he'd known about the m/c cause he would have ordered other tests at the time (he was the last person we were thinking about at the time). Also increased dosage of metformin and we're going to try tamoxifen - has anyone tried this? as clomid doesn't seem to make a difference, although i am ovulating.

[Baby Angels]

Huge Huge Huge Congrats. I love it when people come in here and seem to go just as quickly.... Not that I want you to go but you know what I mean.... Not TTC anymore.... BFP instead.

All the best over the next few weeks.... our hearts and prays go out to you

As for me.... Well I m not going anywhere. I have decided I am still officially TTC. So therefore I can still come in here..... I just dont know when the official TTC as in conception will be..... For me now its step one... build on relationship.... then worry about sperms and eggs. (who knows... by then DH s might have learnt how to swim) So i m still going to be here to watch everyones progress.... to check up on how all the big fat tummys are going, bake cyber cakes, smack hands for negative thoughts and generally keep an eye on everyone.

[Magda]

Hi Ladies,

Thank you to all of you for the Congratulations and happy wishes.

Brockstar, As crazy as this may sound, all of your symptoms are wonderful. This morning my breast was hurting and I was like Yes!.

Natty: My af is due on Monday as well. And I forgot to tell you that my husband's response was the same as your husband's. I guess they don't want to be too emotionally involved.

Have a great day ladies.

[plc1805]

first of all huge HUGE HUGE congrats to Natty and Magda - well done!!!! I am so so so so so so so PLEASED for u both!!!!

I will bbl for personals - have been reading just haven't posted. Take care!!!!!