I can sympathise with you Rozzie, your DH sounds a bit like mine! I said something the other day about not seeing Cooper do all the things Corey is doing, and he just kinda says he doesn't like to think about those sorts of things it's too sad/negative. I feel myself getting defensive/protective for Cooper as to me I sometimes feel that he is trying to block him out rather than remember him, but I have to remind myself it's just his way. I think as mother's we just feel so different.