Charlie B, Hun you will always be reminded but those reminders will sometimes make you smile again. I know for me there a lots...brushing my teeth used to make me gag when i was pg with DD. Now every time i brush my teeth i think of her...let alone all the obvious things. It makes me smile some days. It is still so raw hunny, go easily and gently. I am so sorry you are hurting. My DD died at 23.3 wks and was born 28.5 wks. Even having time to spend with her still inside me, to come to terms, to understand for nearly 6 weeks that she was gone. It was still huge shock so I can only imagine when it happens much faster. All i can say, the pain doesn't get less but you start to manage it better. Some days i still have no idea what i am talking about....it is a confusing and redefining time in your life.
Love and wishes
HM xox