jo76: congrats on the end of bleeding and good luck with the house thing.
But what a shame for you and your customer--such bad luck at the same time, but at least you both understand what the other is going through.

Anthonysmom: I'm pulling for you

Katiegirl: without knowing more about your relationship--is she somebody who's sensitive? are you comfortable around her usually? are you planning to spend a lot of one-on-one time with her or in a group? if she asks you how you are and you say something like "hanging in there" maybe she'll get the hint to be sensitive to your feelings. I don't know. Good luck.