TM thanks for the silver lining. i have been looking for those a lot these days.

Katie - I know what you mean about focusing so much on having another baby. That is all I think about these days...how many days til i ovulate. I wasn't like this when we TTC Anthony.

Jo - Glad you are ok with AF. I was too. It is a pain when it is so heavy. Hopefully she doesn't stay too long.

Well AF came in with gusto and left pretty quickly. I had a very heavy AF for three days and then Tuesday cam and **** she was gone. No spotting no nothing. weird. It is DHs bday weekend. Yes even at 33 he needs a whole weekend to celebrate. We went out last night with some friends and today is with family. His bday isn't even really until tomorrow!! but i love him and he deserves it. it is good bc we get our last set of test results on monday (hopefully they are not late) these will tell us if DH or I has a chromosomal issue within ourselves that can be passed on. The genetic counselor thought there was enough fertility issues in both our families to warrant testing. DHs mom had a stillbirth and s mc. My mom took 16 years of TTC before she conceived and her sister had a mc. well i am off to the store to buy a new vanity for my bathroom. fun.

Barbara