kattie81 my dp and i only had this conversation on saturday when i was really upset and we sat down and talked to one another.i suppose what i got out of it was that he didnt want to confront me about his feelings as i was trying to deal with the loss not only in my mind but my body was too.he didnt want to put more problems on to me.the same with me i didnt want to say anything to him because of how he was trying to deal with it.but at the end of the talk we both felt so much better and it felt good to sit down and just let it all out. when something like this happens you both need to communicate with each other. try sitting him down and making him talk about it show him that you can handle talking about it and you want to talk about it. he might think that you now have the strength to listen to how he feels.if it doesnt work then maybe see a councellar.

lynn thankyou yes i am feeling alot better today i feel that im much more in control of my body which is good.me too am hoping this will be my last one for a long time which i think it might be as i practically just have to look at it and i full pregnant. my dp and i last time concieved the first month we tried.so i didnt think its going to be to hard. its just trying to make it stick this time so fingers crossed.

spring angel im glad to hear you had a good time shopping.and hope you are feeling great only 12 weeks to go chick.wow you are really going good fingers crossed.


a big hi to everyone else hope you all had a great weekend.

love susan