Mel - I am sure you and DH give those kids a stable and safe place to come to. Kids are smart too, they know that you guys love them, which is shown by the way that they run out to you when you go to pick them up....that to me says alot about their mother! It must be so hard for your DH to watch this. I just hope she gets over it soon, cos eventually it will come back and bite her in the butt!! Let's hope!

Thanks for the pink vibes! As I said, we did the timing thing just once, cos if a little pinky doesn't come, then she wasn't meant to and I will be happy with another little bluey too! Actually I'll take twins..one of each maybe I am just being greedy now.

When are you due to do a HPK?? I don't really understand them, but I think, according to my calculations (though they could be out...I was always pretty crap at maths) AF will be due on about 03MAR. Maybe I should post in the HPK thread...I am unsure when the earliest I can test is??