Bailey - Asha - Happy 6th month birthday
Mel – Nicholas Happy 8th month birthday
Spring - Harrison – Happy 7th month birthday
I was thinking of each and every one of you on the weekend, I hope it was the best it could be.

Tommysmum, I was actually thinking something similar on the weekend, we had a tiler come to finish our kitchen, just as we were leaving he came up to me and said a few words along the lines of sorry to hear of your loss, he then went on to say that his wife lost a daughter just prior to birth 18 years ago and that they were just about to celebrate her 18th birthday. He told me how much it changed his life. Since Phoebe left us I'd often think that you know its almost as if nothing has changed, but so much has in such a short time, I wouldn't give any of it back.

A few peoples words keep coming back to me that I wanted to share because they relate to all of us:

a lady at work came up to me crying and said I can't even imagine how much you are hurting but I truly believe this was your way of meeting your angel.

My family keep saying to me, its like a lifetime has passed since this happened, now I think yeah it has, Phoebe's and all our angels'.

I just wanted to share that, you ladies are so beautiful and the strength and compassion you show should be a lesson for everyone.