I think there's a difference between stripping and sex acts. I wouldn't mind my new partner (when i get one lol) seeing a stripper, but when she touches him, or he touches her in any way, that's not on. That's congruent with cheating. But still, there are far better things to do than have a stripper on a bucks/hens night. I think it'd be a huge laugh to have someone in a chicken suit, wearing sexy undies and clothes on top and have the giant chicken strip and dance. I have one strange imagination, but still, that'd be hilarious! Yeah, look but don't touch, but aren't we starting marriages off on the wrong foot by having another person make you feel sexy?