Strippers in clubs are often different to those you can hire to come to your place & yes I have seen & heard of some disgusting things from private stippers. But then what one person thinks is disgusting another may not.

In regards to cheating, I wouldn't not want my DH to go because I think he will cheat. That's just silly. He would never cheat & going to a strip club doesn't equal cheating. I simply don't like what some of the strippers do. Though I would never tell DH what he can & can't do & he wouldn't me either. Some things are just a simple understanding that you know how the other feels about it & you make your decision from there.