I'd have been really hurt if DH had a stripper at his bucks. Fortunately he and I both think the private strippers are tacky (from our limited experience... Mine was only once, and even then I walked out.)
Sorry - I'll admit, I have self-esteem issues and at times really hate my body. But even 'tasteful' pole dancing gets my back up because it is promoting one type of body as being beautiful. (This is an assumption of mine, going from TV shows etc - I have never seen a stripper with cellulite.)