A gf of mine just recently went to a b'day with her DH where a stripper was involved she did say it was a really eye opener she told me that the poor b'day boy was been whipped and he tought it was funny to start with but then when she didnt stop until the boys had to go and save him as he looked like he was ready to hit her ( not that he would ).

So when I say that its all a bit of fun I guess I am more for the clubs not the private shows where they can be xxx rated you dont need to see what she had for breaky for a good time and a laugh with your mates iykwim