I didn't have a stripper for my hens night. I really didn't have a night. We had a girls outting - I was 4.5mths pg and we went bowling ! Sounds cheesy and not really a way to spend something like that, but we had a ball!

DH's bucks night - he went to a strip club. I knew. It was fine. In the end, if he comes home to me and has done anything wrong, what does it matter?

He got home, and I asked was it a good night... Just answer the question - it was his bucks night and didn't need to share. He was so excited about how it all went, that he told me everything anyways!

It's only one night. You trust him enough to marry him, why not let him?

Good luck with everything!