We had children at our wedding, it just was never an option for us to NOT invite children, they are family just like everyone else. Everyone had to travel, so we didn't expect people who were travelling over 1000k's to bring their kids and leave them in a motel with a babysitter.

We were invited to a wedding last year that had no children invited (supposedly) so we didn't go.

I loved having kids at our wedding. It's so special seeing little people dressed up and joining in on a special occasion, seeing them check out the dress, dancing to the music, enjoying rich choc mud cake and other desserts and going hypo, flowers,bubbles...

The wedding we were invited to without kids, also expected my SIL to not take her BF 4 month old!

Nic