My SIL's Wedding was a no-kid Wedding ... except for my one child - my DD whom at the time was 8mths old (though no longer BF'd) ... My SIL never told us it was a no-kid Wedding until WE were at the Wedding ... I was wondering why DP & i & our DD were getting a few stares ... I think the SIL saw the looks we were getting & she explained our DD was her only niece (no nephews) & she wanted her there ... To be honest i think she knew we would have had no one look after her for the day & so therefore let us bring her

I'm all for no-kid Weddings BUT the engaged couple have to realise & be prepared there could be some inability replies because of it