Yeah I wrote ahuge reply in the last thread and then when I went to post it it was locked. Can't copy and paste so I lost the post.

Fi, what I had said was perhaps you can tell her that she can have the money but she has to come visit to pick it up ??? She has a gorgeous little sister that she is missing out on seeing, as well as the rest of her family. I also said something about his ex's influence on the children. Perhaps as they get older they will start thinking more for themselves too.

I agree with what you said to about Mark's letter and I'm not at all taking it lightly. I haven't responded to him as I really don't know what to say. Of course I care if he is truely feeling like this, his feelings are valid and I guess in a way warranted too. I think I need to cut back on my PC time when he is home, this is my way of relaxing though, he has his ways and I have mine. He hates it when I am on the computer, says it's the worst money spent. Even though I am paying for it I told him atleast it's getting used, better than spending money on something that catches dust.

I bet things will be quite strained when he gets in, either that or he will talk like nothing was said (or written)