ok i am trying to think carefully about what i write here.
Firstly i am sorry to everyone for chatting too much about this topic in here, it should have been kept for another area. So i feel partly to blame for whats going on right now.

I do however feel partialy attacked for stating my opinion earlier. And thats exactly what it was, just an opinion. (IK i know u edited to say it was not a personal attack)We all go on here that everyone can state their own opinion, & i do not feel that i need to thoughroly research any particular topic before having my say. Agreed i have not studied this topic in depth, but then i also did not try and say that i knew everything about it.
I did feel Neeny was attacked. & i am sorry because you were agreeing with me.

ok so if we are only to talk about topics we have degree's on then there should have been no comment made about the baby mix up at the hospital. Yet this topic was spoken about it like it only happened because the mother didnt want her child in her room the enitre time.
But then what in the instance of when a baby needs to spend time in Special care, or NICU for that matter? I did not EVER (nor did many other mums) get the oportunity to have my baby room in with me.
it was not my fault Nixon couldnt be with me.
It was not Nixon's fault he couldnt be with me
It was not the hospitals fault he couldnt be with me.

so therefore the first time i seen my son i could have seen another baby and not known the difference. I could have held another baby's hand thinking it was mine (I didnt) but just because a baby is not in a room with the mother the entire time does not mean she should or should not know their own child IMMEDIATLEY.
but i will no longer speak of either of these two topics because there is another place for them
candy- none of us want to c u stop coming in here, you have been a big part of our group for so long. But i understand all the same.
sara sorry youve come into this group at this point its probably not what u want to be hearing everyone dissagreeinhg

Edited: If anyway wants to have a personal dig at anything i have said u can email me at: nicole@newschool.com.au so to not keep it going in here