The internet is open to a million interpretations and I hope no-one thought I was saying bottlefeeding is bad! Because that's not what I meant. All I wanted to say was that if you are struggling, please don't hesitate to ask for help from a higher source and please don't feel bad doing so. That's it. If you want to discuss breastfeeding issues further, please post in the feeding forums. I haven't been directing this at those who choose to bottlefeed but those having problems and often it's so easy to give up if support seems hard to find. It's much easier than we might think. All of you will be supported no matter what, that's a given on BB.