In the end you do whats best for you baby and wat works for you.

Me letting Jasmine cry when i want her to sleep works for us. Im not one that likes to pick my kids up at the first cry...or 15 mins later...i will try to settle while she is in her cradle but i dont 'mummy' her. FF works for us now...i didnt wanna but i gave BF a shot so wat more can i ask for. I have a happy baby and thats wat matters!!

That sucks u live so far from any resources Rebecca....but you are doing a great job with Caitlyn.

Pics on Chels' site now from party #1 :P