Viv - re wipes. My kids are failrly sensitive to and I use cloth wipes. I biught the really fine baby terry washers from Big W and I keep them dampened with water in an old huggies container. I was them with the nappies but you could do them in the machine. Just add a bit of disinfectant in the rinse cycle, its just baby poop

I don't have any probs with redness and crying when geting wiped any more.

HTH?