Welcome alz! You just have to do what you feel is right! If you want to pick him up and cuddle him then do it! Babies need lots of love from their mummies! Babies also dont really know how to whinge yet, they only cry if something is wrong, hungry tired or hot cold! You might like to try a product called mariners infant mixture for his relfux. My SIL has used it on both her boys and it has worked wonders! But at the end of the day you have to do what feels right, dont worry what other people say just go with your instinct! Look forward to getting to know you!

Myles is calling me will be back later ladies!x