Mum2, welcome to our thread. As for Emily's weight, are you and your DH big or small people? After birth when a baby is growing on its own it changes from the size that your body is able to grow a baby to the size that it is genetically supposed to be iykwim? So just because you grew a big one doesn't mean that she was destined to always be a big baby. As long as she is feeding well and having lots of wet and dirty nappies I wouldn't worry too much, but if you feel something isn't right then get her checked by a doctor or child nurse.