I know exactly what you mean as to where we belong on BB, I had a very same question last night after thinking maybe should join the M&L, but with the IVF it does feel a bit out of the place...but at least I got some information as of what to expect after D&C (ie, how long have to wait to have AF or can start trying etc. )...

Stay in this thread as long as you feel comfortable and you know we will all come here to checking on you...taking one step at the time...

As for me, I don't know when to start again (we need to another stim cycle and that's just too much at the moment) ...but I did my very first post in LTTTC thread this monring thinking its something positive that I can do to move on from the tragic story, because everytime I go back to my thread and seeing the title, I want to cry...
... I find looking forward is easier than looking back...maybe that's my way of surviving this...