BW, I agree with FC you belong wherever you feel comfortable and you may not know where that is for a while. I guess you just need to work out where you need support and you might find that you get support from 2 different threads. When I first started coming here I was posting in the Stillbirth/Loss thread because that is where I need the most support. Cooper was an assisted conception but also took 2 years to conceive so I could have gone into the LTTTC thread. Once we made the decision to TTC I started hanging around the AC thread and LTTTC thread because not only did I need support from people who had had a stillbirth, I also needed the support of people who have AC. Sorry I am babbling, but I guess what I am saying is that you may find that you fit into more than one place, and that is ok. You may also find that there are people just like you, I know in the Stillbirth thread there are a number of us that have lost babies but also struggle to conceive. Thinking of you